In small amounts, alcohol can relax you for a few hours. With larger amounts, it can make you feel worse.
The desire to have this short-lived feeling then does not work, particularly if your body has developed tolerance to alcohol and you drink more to feel the same effects.
The problem is that it is easy to slip into drinking regularly, using it like a medicine. The benefits soon wear off and the drinking becomes part of a routine.
You also start to notice that:
- instead of choosing to have a drink, you feel the urge to have one
- you wake up with shaky hands and a feeling of nervousness
- you start to drink earlier and earlier in the day
- your work starts to suffer
- your drinking starts to affect your relationships
- you carry on drinking despite the problems it causes
- you start to ‘binge drink’ (see below) regularly
- you start to neglect other parts of your life
What problems does alcohol dependence cause?
If you use alcohol a lot, it can have a negative impact on your day-to-day life. For example, it could lead to problems with:
- money
- education and employment
- relationships
- housing
- low self-esteem
- finding it hard to maintain commitments, including appointments related to your alcohol use or mental health
Long-term effects
Alcohol can lead to:
- psychosis - hearing voices when there is nobody there
- memory problems either on their own (Korsakoff’s Syndrome) or also affecting other areas of the brain (alcohol related dementia) - rather like but not the same as Alzheimer's dementia
- physical - damage organs, such as the liver or brain
How much is too much?
- A ‘unit’ of alcohol (10 mL, 8 g) is roughly a small glass of wine, a 25ml single measure of spirits or most of a bottle of regular strength (4%) beer.
- Recent studies show that any amount of alcohol is potentially harmful but the conventional safer drinking limits are 14 units per week for men and women, with at least two alcohol-free days each week. Drinking any amount of alcohol during pregnancy can seriously harm the unborn baby.
How can I get help for dependence?
Simple practical steps
- Use a drinks diary to record how much your drinking each day. This will help you identify when, where and with whom you are most likely to drink alcohol.
- Once you have identified these triggers, look for ways to avoid them
- Do not keep alcohol at home
- Use peer support groups e.g. Alcoholics Anonymous where available, religious organizations etc.
- Set yourself a target to reduce the amount of alcohol you drink
- Drink lower-strength, though full-taste, drinks, like 4% beers or 10% wines
- Involve your partner or a friend. They can help to agree a goal and keep track of your progress
Warning: if you are a heavy drinker, suddenly stopping all alcohol can lead to fits and confusion. Talk to your doctor first if planning to stop as you may need a medication called diazepam to replace the alcohol for the first few days.